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The Easiest Way to be a Better Dad

is to be rich

I am just sick to death how this isn't the most important thing to know about having children.

It is not the buying them toys or trinkets either.

It is that you cannot give a child a good home without having lots of money.

Men, you have to wait to have children until you are rich. You should wait until you are at least 40 years old and well established to have children.

Your kids will rely on you for everything and you will not be able to deliver unless you are rich.

You will not be able to provide them the support they need unless you are rich.

You will not be able to give them the things they need and the experiences they need to have a good life unless you are rich.

How can you hope to give your children a good life if you cannot even give yourself a good life?

That is the myth handed down forever.

The myth that you do not need money to take care of your children well.

That is one of the biggest lies in the world.

The only way they can hope to have a good life if their father is not rich is to get rich when they grow up. They will have a so-so life when they are children.

They may suffer and be miserable at times.

The powers that be will constantly be saying that this is good. Children need to suffer. They need to be bored. They need to know pain. It is for their own good.

It is all crap.

This is just a way to ensure a ever growing population of people who are good at suffering. Who are good at taking it. Who are good at being miserable and not saying too much.

If you are in your 20's or 30's, just wait to have children until you have a lot of resources set aside.

If you already have children, as I do, you must make the acquiring of resources your highest priority.

You need to take care of them as best you can now and be working to do better as fast as you can and as hard as you can.

If you do not have children yet, you are lucky. You have time.

Start by taking care of yourself. You need to make yourself as big, as healthy, as powerful, as free and as rich as you can.

You need to treat yourself like a king. You need to have a wonderful life that is brimming with happiness and fulfillment.

Once you are at that point, you can then easily add people to be responsible for.

Most men do not do it this way. They have children when they can hardly afford to take care of themselves.

Think of it this way. If you cannot afford to get a new car of your choosing every few years, live in a house of your choosing that you can easily afford, travel as often as you like, eat exactly what you want, dress well and do every other thing that you want before you have children, how will you have any hope of providing for your children?

Once you have children you will need to have a good car that works well for them. It will have to be large and safe and new so you do not have to be continually getting it repaired.

You will need to have a larger home that works for your family.

You will need to be able to travel to visit friends and family and to give your kids some experiences.

You will need to be able to feed them and clothe them and do whatever it is that they need.

You will find, once you have children, that no one really cares about your children except for you. This has been one of the most heart breaking things I have discovered once I had children.

It is not that other people go out of their way to hate your children, or hurt them, it is that many people hate all children and many people barely have enough energy to care for themselves. They have nothing to give others.

That is why, as a father, it is up to you to give everything to your kids.

It is not all bad. Other people will be kind, and do good things for your kids from time to time.

But if you add up a few good episodes it will not compare to the day in, day out, year in, year out support you will need to provide.

You will not care about other children, only your own.

You will not hurt other children, but you will not really be in a position to do that much for them.

This is why it is so tragic for a child to not have a father. Who is going to take care of them? Who is going to drive them to the emergency room in the middle of the night? Who is going to get to the store before it closes to get some necessities?

Who is going to buy the Christmas toys, the school supplies, the new clothes and the food that is needed every single day for years and years on end?

Who is going to be there when their adult child is running from an abusive spouse? This is supposed to be the father.

The best way to do this is to be rich. If you are poor, it will be a huge drag. You will not have enough money to take care of all you in a decent manner. You will only have enough money to take care of all of you in a barely adequate, survival type manner.

That type of living is not that great. It is quite awful. It is no way for humans to live.

Tragically, this is the way billions of people live and have lived and will continue to live.

But not you. Now you know the truth. You will wait to have children until you are rich and well established. If you already have children you will get busier trying to accumulate more. You will use the having of children as motivation to do what you need to do.

Now I do not mean that all rich fathers are great dads. Some of them are vicious, mean, spiteful, hateful, abusive men.

And I do not mean that all poor fathers are not doing the best they can for their children. I know that some of them are wonderful, caring fathers.

What I mean is that you, as a man searching the internet for guidance on men issues are a thoughtful, intelligent man. I know that you are either a great dad or will be one in the future.

I just need to point out the facts of dollars and cents that seem to never be discussed.

So that is what I am doing. I am discussing them here. Feel free to add your comments. This is a controversial topic but of extreme importance to your children.

Hans Recommends

The Secret of Deliberate Creation is an excellent audio program by Dr. Robert Anthony. I have been listening to it over and over again and my life is getting better in the process. I am starting to manifest good things into my life as a result of using this program.

My daughters Inspirational Story Sometimes a young girl knows what to do to save herself.

Single Dad More information from my website on being a single dad. Being a father is great whether you are single or married.

The Handsome Factor - This is a great resource for men, and especially young men to learn how to maximize your appearance.

Here is that link again to The Organized Single Dad, if you missed it. The Organized Single Dad eBook

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